How it works

Safety that thinks ahead without reading along.

Every message your child sends goes through an automated safety check before a response appears. Here is what SafeMentor detects and what you, as a parent, get to see.

SafeMentor watches for signs of distress, danger or harmful content in your child's conversations. The conversations themselves stay private: there is no chat history in the parent dashboard. When something serious is detected, you receive a notification — and for safety-critical topics such as suicide, also a summary written for you, never your child's exact words.

Our 3-stage safety

How we protect your child

Stage 1 — Always active

Normal tutoring

SafeMentor responds warmly, age-appropriately and with pedagogical care. No intervention, no notification. Your child is accompanied — you don't need to do anything.

Stage 2 — Quiet signal

Discreet heads-up

For topics like bullying, eating disorders or concerning requests, SafeMentor detects the signal. The AI responds empathetically and encourages your child to talk to people they trust — usually you. You receive a discreet note in your parent dashboard.

Stage 3 — Immediate

Immediate notification

For serious warning signs, such as concrete suicide plans, acute danger, sexual abuse or concrete plans to hurt someone — SafeMentor switches immediately. Your child receives a pre-written, structured response with help resources. It is not generated by the AI, so that nothing wrong or invented is said in critical moments. You are notified right away with a clear summary — unless the danger most likely comes from your own household (see below).

How the system works

1

Your child writes a message

Every message is immediately analysed before a response is generated.

2

Safety check in real time

Our classifier pipeline checks for safety-relevant patterns in a very short time.

3

Appropriate response

The AI responds in a way that is matched to the detected situation — supportive, guiding, or de-escalating.

4

Parent dashboard updated

If a concern is detected, you receive — depending on the situation — a note and, where relevant, a paraphrased summary. Never your child's exact words.

What you see as a parent

🟡 Heads-up alert — example

🟡

Heads-up — your child may need a conversation.

📌

What: Signs of passive suicidal thoughts

📝

Context: Your child expressed feeling like a burden to others

👤

Affected: Your child as the affected person

🔴 Immediate alert — example

🔴

Immediate attention — your child may need direct support.

📌

What: Possible sexual harassment by an adult

📝

Context: Your child reported inappropriate behaviour by an adult in their wider circle

👤

Affected: Your child as the affected person

🛡️ Child protection comes first

When the danger is inside the home

If a child reports violence, abuse or assault by a mother, father or step-parent, we deliberately do not notify the parents — a notification could put the child at further risk. Instead, the child receives a fixed, pre-written response with a helpline number and, where appropriate, the emergency number 112.

If the danger comes from someone else — relatives, acquaintances or classmates, for example — we notify you as usual.

This assessment is automated and can be wrong in individual cases.

Alert levels

🔴 Immediate attentionYou are notified right away. Your child may need direct support.
🟡 Heads-upSomething worth being aware of. No immediate danger, but worth a conversation.
— No alertSafeMentor responds, but no parent notification is sent.

Privacy: Parent alerts never contain your child's exact words — notes and summaries are paraphrased. When we notify you, your child is usually told so. Chats are not sold and not used to train AI models; processing takes place in the EU, by the service providers we list.

Privacy policyList of subprocessors

Limits: No automated detection is infallible: SafeMentor can miss situations or raise false alarms. It does not replace your attention or professional help. In an emergency, call your local emergency number (112 in the EU).

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